Create the 'even if' Mindset; Stop Fear Creating a 'what if', Mindset

Paralysis of 'What If'

Fear has a way of gripping us and whispering 'what if'. 'What if I fail? What will people think of me? What if I'm not good enough?' Stop offering these lame questions and promote excuses; they create a prison of indecision and self-doubt. We second-guess, and ultimately, we sit dormant in procrastination. Fear tricks us into believing that safety lies in inaction; do you know the comfort zone we discuss? That's it, the dangerous illusion of comfort. The truth is, the 'what if' mindset is shit for your growth, progress and ultimately fulfilment.

Get rid of the 'what if' mindset

Fear feeds on self-doubt, magnifying potential risks while overshadowing potential rewards. When we give in to 'what if,' we allow fear to dictate terms, which stifles our actions, leading to missed opportunities and unfulfilled potential. It's time to change this mindset. It's time to challenge the 'what if' with a powerful alternative: 'even if.'

Embracing the Power of 'Even If'

Self-belief charges forward with 'even if.' This mindset shift transforms our approach from challenges to opportunities. 'Even if' acknowledges the risks but refuses to be paralysed by them. 'Even if I fail, I will learn. Even if they laugh, f#ck them. Even if I don't quite make it happen, I won't give it.' This mentality fuels resilience, courage, and determination. It propels us forward, empowering us to take action despite the uncertainties.

'Even if' is a commitment to self-belief. It is a declaration of trust in our ability to navigate barriers and emerge stronger from the other side. It's a commitment to ourselves that we will not be driven by fear of failure or rejection. Instead, we will use every experience as a stepping stone toward our goals.

Illusion of Safety

Safety in inaction is an illusion. Staying in our comfort zones because of 'what if' feels safe, but in reality, it keeps us trapped in a mental prison. We are not meant to live lives confined by fear. Fulfilment and purpose lie beyond the borders of comfort and safety. The path to success is always filled with some challenges and risks, but it is also where we find our kick-ass attitude.

Consider the stories of those we admire for making 'it' happen. They did not do so by fluffing in life and playing it safe. They took the 'even if' approach. They understood that failure is not the end but a part of the journey. They knew that rejection was not a reflection of their worth but an opportunity to grow. They charged forward, fueled by self-belief, and transformed their dreams into reality.

Call to Action

It's time to challenge yourself. Look at your life and identify where 'what if' has been holding you back. What dreams have you put on hold? What goals have you abandoned because of fear? Now, confront those 'what ifs' with 'even if.'

Moving Forward with Self-Belief

Adopting the 'even if' mindset must be continuous and not a one-time event. Fear may tap you on the shoulder to remind you of 'what if,' so why not pause and think about the 'even if?' Remind yourself that it is not about being completely fearless; it's done in spite of fear. It's about backing yourself and showing you have the resilience and resourcefulness to handle whatever comes your way.

It may seem corny, but celebrate your wins, no matter how small, and bank them as evidence of your capability. Surround yourself with people who will support you, and cull the ones who will not. Seek out friends and communities that encourage positivity.

Create the 'even if' Mindset: Final thoughts

Fear will enter our lives, but it does not have to control us. We have the power to choose our response to fear. We can hesitate with 'what if' or charge forward with 'even if.' The choice is ours.

So, what will it be? Will you allow fear to dictate your life, or will you embrace self-belief and take action? Create the 'even if' mindset. Challenge your fears and persist confidently and determinedly. Your best life awaits beyond the borders of comfort and safety. Step into it with courage and self-belief. Charge forward and create the future you deserve.